Last nigth I laid on the couch thinking about all of the painful words that I readd yesterday and it sent my racing. It was amazing the to remember all of the things that I thought that I had forgotten.I cacn now remember the many bruises and broken bones that my grandmother had when I was a child. I always thought it was because grandmom drank to much, it wasn't until now that I realiized that she drank because of the beatings and abuse.So as it was shared on the Steve Harvey Show itis a learned behavior, because my mother and I also have been in abusive relationships.I am the one to start to break the circle of abuse among the women in the family. I can remember my daughter at the age of 16 being hit by her boyfreind and when I seen this enterveened. This is a beautiful place to share thank all of you for your words of healing.