Know Someone Who Can Use Help? > My Fiancee isĀ abusive..

I am 24 yrs.old i have a daughter who just turned two.And i have been in this relationship for a while.And it has progressively gotten worst.I have missed school as well as work becuase the bruises have gotton so visible.Im very afraid to tell even my closet of friends.I dont see my family nor my friends at all theses last few months.I am pregnant again and im afriad of him.Not sure what i should do at all...I really dont have much alone time(right now he is asleep)So im up here..but idk what i should do,because i fear him and me and my children safety....
January 31, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterknow someone..
Get help and get out now. Things will only get worse. Be your own hero and save yourself and your children. It's not going to be easy but do you really want your children to grow up with this man in your life? Be strong!
February 14, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterFran in Utah
Take your child and leave. If you don't know where to go, go the the emergency room at a hospital, show them your bruises and tell them what has happened. I don't know where you live, so don't know what help is available for you. There should be some sort of victims services, or shelter.
The first step out the door is the hardest and only you can do it. Know that there are many who would help you if you talked about it.

No matter what he says, it is not your fault for whatever excuse he uses to beat you. It is his choice. Leave before he makes that choice again.

You and your children deserve a life without fear.

Make sure you delete any references to yourself and searching for help from your computer.
March 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCarol